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Ahhh, the joys of a long-term relationship: Comfort, loyalty Not so fast. Staying together for the long haul doesn't necessarily mean action in the bedroom has to suffer. In fact, knowing each other so well can actually make things even hotter in that arena. Need proof?
We spoke to real couples, all of whom have been together for 10 years or longer, and rank their sex lives very highly. Lucky for you, they were willing to share their secrets. We have sex before he leaves and right when he gets back. Secret 2: Be candid.
When I made the decision to talk to him about what does work, we reached a whole new level of intimacy. I wasn't waiting for him to 'figure it out' anymore; sharing has made both of us better lovers. Secret 3: Act like teenagers. Every now and then when he's working from home, I'll interrupt him in stilettos and a robe, or I'll quickly flash him when we're out and no one's looking.
When he tries to playfully grope me I don't swat him away—it keeps the spark alive. Secret 4: Let your mind be changed. Once we get started, I tend to forget that I ever wanted a quickie. Next thing I knew, my wife was straddling me, bathing suit pushed aside, and we were looking out for people walking by! Secret 6: Share the responsibility. We had to work out which days were better for us. Saturday is either a day of rest or a bonus day! A big part of the main character Christian Grey's method is keeping the girl waiting.
Sometimes it would be all foreplay and then he wouldn't even have sex with her. I applied that concept to my sex life and have loved the longer build-up. The waiting makes the actual sex more satisfying. Secret 8: Resist autopilot. For us, it's about treating sex as an opportunity to discover something new.
The key to having a fulfilling long-term sex life is to shift your focus away from excitement, and focus instead on the richness and texture in every experience. There's always the potential to be surprised. Secret 9: Challenge yourselves.
Then, after hearing about other couples doing similar things, we embarked on a Sixty Days of Sex challenge. The result of putting each other first continues to impact our sex life today. Now we have sex at least twice a week, and we talk about sex more—what we like, what feels good.
We flirt with each other more. Secret Know each other's likes. That's what makes them special.
It's like learning to write a sonnet: Once you have the formula, you can create something beautiful. Secret Compliment each other. Secret Work through it. That bothered me and made me feel like I wasn't good enough, but we tackled those issues head on. Now we're past that, and our sex life is great again. Secret Get rid of expectations. Sex is never a chore.
Sometimes we laugh so hard we have to stop, and that's okay. And some of our most intimate moments are us simply lying in bed together entwined. Adds Patricia, "My husband and I usually take a bath together to transition into sex. Secret Embrace your age. We've been together for 11 years and made a healthy, happy sex life a priority early on in our relationship. We agreed that though growing older may mean learning new ways to have good sex—creaky ts and all—we are not willing to give up or settle for anything less.
In fact, we laugh about the crazy sounds they make! Weight Loss.
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